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From: joey
Date: 15 Jan 2004
Time: 08:34:42 -0700
Remote Name: 200.11.240.70
What a releif to read about a guy whose loved one is a crack addict.Seems to be so many more girls hung up with addicts than guys.I too had been involved for 15 years with a crack addict.When i met her she was beautiful,inteligent sweet,etc etc etc.I was a uprising attorney in Venezuela.We had two beautiful children.After all the years of suffering the most prepostrous behaviours,irrespectful acts,inmoral etcetc etc I finally sued her took the children and left her.Today two years later,my children are wonderful,they havent seen their mother in over a year,she has been arrested three times since we ledt,jailed,and finally has been forced by the court to enter a halfway house or pay a year in jail.The most dificult part of it all is having to act or take action against somebody you loved and beleive me that is dificult.The truth is addiction to crack sucks,but things are the way they are,and we cant change them.Accepting my lover will never change still today hurts me terribly.But i ran as fast as i could the other way.Nobody can say I didnt try,I stuck around for fifteen years,probably doing all the wrong thoings for the right reason.I loved her so I enabled her.I feel so angry at having lost so many years of my life trying to resolve that which is unresolvable.My advise to anyone involved in love with a crack addict is to RUN AND LET THEM ROT IN HELL: